Thursday, 23rd June 2011

(This is a very personal post. You may not like it. I wrote it because I felt like it.)

As much as I despise the word and the objectification it brings to the minds of people, I've never had a "girlfriend". Some people find that stupid, some people find it horrifying and some people give reactions that lead me to believe I'm not part of a very cultured society.

I've always been very social, perhaps extremely social if you consider me a part of the "computer geek" community. Our kind doesn't really believe in person-to-person meetings. But I've always had a large group of friends and I like to meet new people. No, I don't always like to sit in front of a computer. Yes, you can call me strange.

I've always known so many brilliant and awesome people, that I never found the need to have a female companion. Life is always interesting. But sadly, that's a major point people throw at me, "What do you do when you're bored? Don't you feel like hanging out with someone?". Uh, no. Never felt bored enough that I'd want to hang out with a girl. In fact, why would I want to hang out with a girl only when bored? Over the years, friends have given me "advice" on why I've never had a girlfriend. Some of the responses have been…
- "You're too nice"
- "You're too geeky"
- "You think too much"
- "You're too thin"
- "You don't have a bike!!! You don't have a car?!?!!!"

You get the flow.

Societal norms are the least of my concerns and peer pressure is a joke. But I've had my share of (albeit rare) girls who I have really liked. Evidently, none of them ever got converted to the "relationship" state. The major reason I would attribute that to is my experiences at school. Studying at DPS for almost a decade teaches you more about this stuff than any other education. School had a very open environment, kids came from varying family backgrounds and I saw too many people get together and "break" up. The whole tearjerker saga. It made me apprehensive of getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of it. My friends are those who I get along with all the time, who I can bank upon. Whenever, I'd want a girl like that. Friend first, everything else later. Somehow, this was a very, VERY hard concept for people to understand. Still is and I don't see why. Hell, there's an entire concept around that idea (Remember friend-zoning?).

So the next time someone asks me the damn question again, you know where they are going to get pointed to.

Friday, 19th December 2008

Totally against my expectations, I received many more calls/messages in the middle of the night than I usually do. Now I don't want to attribute this to my obvious popularity so I will attribute it to the Facebook effect :-)

Jokes apart, I was really touched how sympathetic people were when they realized I was actually studying for my algorithm design exam, which happened to be on 18th. And how nicely I was wished by people whose birthdays I (very shamelessly) forget. I will mention here those noble kind and truly AWESOME friends who ritualistically wished me at 0000 hrs. Those who wished me later, bleh to you! (but thanks anyway.)
- Nitish, my best friend.
- Eshita, my sister, craziness incarnate.
- Rishabh, friend extraordinary.
- Yukti, waaaay too good friend for 10+ years now.
- Gunjan, unquestionably awesome friend, woke up just to wish me!
- Richa, Sonal, Stuti – super-friends! geez, I didn't even wish them on their b'days (I'm sorry!)
- Mili, bus-mate and junior. (whose birthday I knew, but forgot)
- Prateek - prTk, Ruby fanboy and Human Graphical Machina.
- Akshay, Paridhi et al. - yaay! Cousins!

Wednesday, 26th March 2008

Holi is a fun, peaceful and colorful festival in India.
That said, I am sure my college does _not_ come in Indian territory since students there fail to comply with the above mentioned description of Holi :)

Monday, 24th September 2007

Here's the temporary way to access the Genesis site, http://www.genesis.net.in... Click this URL: http://d17770534.u164.worldispnetwork.com

Go GENESIS!

Monday, 17th September 2007

well, i know its not anywhere close to Frankenstein, but then, finally, my new blog, my very own one (sob...) is alive. lets see...

1. i hate this design... i had it ripped it off, and its ripping me.
2. there's hell lot of stuff i want to add here, but i lack time.
3. there is nothing innovative here.

more later... :)